Friday, November 10, 2006

The whole 9 yards...

"What's with men and sarees??!!!", they exclaimed, in unison. Here's my take:

A saree is an intrinsically graceful and elegant piece of clothing.
Thus,it endows the wearer with greater grace and elegance, at least, that's how it's perceived. (Assuming, one can carry it off without being awkward).

There is a greater sense of perceived maturity associated with a woman wearing a saree.

Now, who doesn't love grace, elegance and maturity, right? :)

Most Indian men like Indian women. The saree brings out the Indianness of a desi woman far more than a skirt (I love seeing women in those too, but then that would be a digression!) or a pair of jeans. Never underestimate the appeal/power of the 'ethnic factor'.

And, finally, it's also about demand and supply. How often do you see a pleasant looking twenty something woman wearing a saree? As is the wont of our generation, women prefer the comfort/flexibility/ease of slipping into a pair of jeans to wearing a saree (not that they look any less attractive when they wear jeans). Thus, the less you see them in a saree, the more you crave it/them.

And, that's why, the sight of a lovely young Indian woman wearing a saree tends to warm the cockles of many an Indian man's heart.

That being said, for the record, I find women wearing a salwar kameez as appealing as those that wear sarees(all other factors remaining same/comparable).

On a tangent:

My mum always says - a saree is one twisted (no pun intended) piece of clothing.

One can wear it in the most conservative and elegant fashion and cover every inch.
However, a saree also lends itself easily to creativity, whereby one can find every 'window' of opportunity to tease. There is a thin line between being alluring and going overboard when flaunting curves. That middle path, is probably the best and perhaps the toughest to attain.

Thoughts...?

14 Comments:

At 4:37 pm, November 10, 2006 , Blogger woorkeri wittynathan said...

Oh, and it's a tough call between Bandhini and Kanjeevaram silk! :)

 
At 4:54 pm, November 10, 2006 , Blogger Zywie said...

How can you miss out on the elegance of crisp, starched cotton sarees? :)

 
At 5:13 pm, November 10, 2006 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Perceived grace, elegance and maturity. I agree Senor Nathan. 'Perceived' being the key word here.

 
At 5:17 pm, November 10, 2006 , Blogger Mommy G said...

Ofcourse, last weekend, us six babes walked on that middle path all the way. Didn't we?? ;)

 
At 5:21 pm, November 10, 2006 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

on a side note, anyone ever tried putting on a 9 yard saree?? Its a job on its own!

 
At 5:42 pm, November 10, 2006 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dont remind me sarees. Those memories of oversized aunties flaunting thier midriff 'tresses' is 'disturbing' to put it midly. I always had the urge to go beg Saibaba to gift one of his long gowns to those women.

An attractive woman is more appealing in a saree. Attractive being a prereq :))

I agree with zywie - crisp starched cotton saree with a thin zari border - kaptivatin!

 
At 9:21 pm, November 11, 2006 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Great post dude. Just a random thought... Its neither the saree nor the person. The elegance lies in the art of draping a saree ... kanjeevaram, bandhini, cotton, or silk.
And ofcourse, "cockles of the heart..." for anyone in a saree would prolly be pushing it a bit too far :P.

 
At 11:55 am, November 12, 2006 , Blogger Charanya said...

I guess sarees is to men as crisp white jibbas and blue jeans is to ME!! Sigh........;)

 
At 5:49 pm, November 13, 2006 , Blogger SternMystic said...

Saree to me is Mrs.Shalini in AlaiPayuthey or Ms.Sen in Main Hoon Na.

Pls, don't no one try to compete with that, its quite impossible.

 
At 11:07 am, November 14, 2006 , Blogger Zywie said...

What about Jothika in Kaakha Kaakha? Starched, pressed, Cotton sarees all the way :)

 
At 12:53 pm, November 14, 2006 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

What about Jothika in Kaakha Kaakha?

Jothika - NEVER!

I'd take Asin who played counterpart role in telugu version of "Khakha khakah" - "Gharshana".

http://www.idlebrain.com/movie/photogallery/gharshana/gharshana62.html

 
At 3:07 pm, November 14, 2006 , Blogger Charanya said...

Well...instead of Jo, how about Gayathri Joshi in Sawdes???

 
At 12:09 am, November 15, 2006 , Blogger Zywie said...

I dont like Jo either.. but I thot her sarees were awesome..

Ms.Joshi is too thin, no?

 
At 11:43 am, December 15, 2006 , Blogger woorkeri wittynathan said...

Catching up on comments. So, here goes:
Zywie - thanks for stopping by! Es, I concur - crisp cotton has a special place in my heart too! :)
Stacy's mom - Perception is powerful!
Areille - True dat! :)
Anonymous - No, I have never tried to wear a 9 yard saree! :P
Pokiri- Semi attractive with the right saree packaging works too!
ramya sankar - Agree. The wearer and the wearer's attractiveness, the garment and the draping of the garment - its all one beautiful symphony!
Ciara - Hey! I wear that all the time! :)
Stern - Well said about Sen and Shalini. What about the blue chiffon clad Sridevi in Mr. India? Eh?
Zywie - Me no see KK
Pokiri - Me no know Asis
Zywie / Ciara - GJ is thin, but she sure looks alluring in Swades. The saree effect! :)

 

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