Saturday, May 10, 2008

Steal and rebound...

No no, I am not going to talk about basketball here.

If I look around, some of the most successful Indian marriages in my generation seem to
have stemmed either from a 'steal' or a 'rebound'. In the western context, one would perhaps see such relationships as merely transient. But, my take is that in the Indian context, nothing (well, almost nothing) works better than a 'steal' (for example, the girl stealing the guy away from another girl) or a 'rebound' (I will not insult your intelligence by defining a 'rebound').

Good food for thought in terms of why this may be happening...
(I just didn't have the patience to analyze! :) Feel free to propound away!)

8 Comments:

At 1:26 pm, May 11, 2008 , Blogger woorkeri wittynathan said...

Elementary, dear Sharma.

 
At 4:47 pm, May 11, 2008 , Blogger SternMystic said...

The trick is doing so and at the same time seemingly following the codes of bro-ho (or sis-ho) conduct.

Which brings me to...how come your steal is defined as gal stealing guy from another gal but not vice versa...something there? Or just an example?

 
At 4:49 pm, May 11, 2008 , Blogger woorkeri wittynathan said...

True. Fine line to be walked there, mate.
The steal definition was an example. Yes, it works both ways. Good to see you.

 
At 11:52 pm, May 11, 2008 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

guess you're just wanted and accepted all the more in both situations.

 
At 2:05 pm, May 15, 2008 , Blogger woorkeri wittynathan said...

Interesting point, Anony. I decided not to analyze it and let it be. Its definitely food for thought though...

 
At 9:24 pm, May 20, 2008 , Blogger 'Tis a beautiful life! said...

interesting

haven't known of many such marriages

wonder what the reasoning could be - a guy/girl on rebound has learnt what not to do??

 
At 4:00 am, August 28, 2008 , Blogger See Bee said...

desperation?
"ive found sumone, now let me put the superglue before he/she gets away" kinda thinking...

heard of any divorce stories that followed?

 
At 9:45 am, August 28, 2008 , Blogger woorkeri wittynathan said...

CC - Nah, not yet (and I hope not).
Hmm, perhaps Fevicol *is* potent.

 

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